T - not much time today - work gets in the way sometimes. If you show me your photo, I'll show you mine! I am older than you - I'm sure you said you were 49 (a mere babe in arms) and I too really do prefer mature men but appreciate the beauty of the young ones esp. Johnny Depp!!! I think a Chi get together should be somewhere central - so get out the atlas and pick a country - my geography is appalling so will leave it to you to pick somewhere exotic mid-way between UK, US, Australia, Thailand etc etc.
Yes, I agree, voices can be misleading - I once worked for a man who gave Quasimodo a run for his money but his voice was v. seductive! I know looks aren't everything but there has got to be a happy medium.
See you later.