I think this is a painful day for everyone. I don't deal with it well, so I don't turn on the tv to watch the ceremonies (I did in the past, and it was too difficult). I have a poster of the rescue workers - I don't know if I'll ever be able to hang it. I know I watched too much on tv at the time - I'm sure that's why I am still so sensitized to the memories. Reading about it is different from actually watching the same horrible images over and over.
The site, on the other hand, does not bother me - it's just a big construction site. It's the memories that hurt so much, even though I did not personally lose anyone.