T, it occurs to me that my previous post, about taking an ad in the Village Voice, could be taken the wrong way by anyone familiar with that paper's reputation for kinky personal ads. Believe it or not, I didn't have those ads in mind at all. I was simply trying to make the point that I was surprised you were posting so much detail about your plans on a public forum.
On the other hand, if you do want to put a personal ad in the Voice, that's entirely your own business.