Thanks, Alan. Good suggestion.
I had largely given up on figuring out how some words are common and others not, now I know why.
It still bugs me that I get down to "2 common words left" that I never get, then find the solution after its closed, and it just seems inevitable that one of them is something I blanked out on, but the other is a word I never heard of before, while in the meantime the puzzle is rejecting words that, while maybe rare, are clearly words in use. A good example would be "asse" from yesterday's challenge puzzle.
I guess I just have to learn to live with disappointment.